Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Once there lived a carpenter n he had a good son, who always used to enjoy with frns. . . Bt d carpenter, being d lone earner in d home, used to tell his son to work. . .
Once d son got fed up wid his father n said to him like dis... 'oh my dad! Life is not all about earnin. Its about living. Live ur life with a zeal to do somethn. Give ur time to family n frns even. No one luks fr ur riches bt u may nevr knw a few wrds of urs may hav a huge impact on othrs life.'
His father listenin to his son said, 'beta!!! A well-timed positive word or compliment can change the course of someone’s day. If u don hav sumthn nice to say, don say anythn at al. Speak wid a purpose, nt jus to fil up a silence. I'm makin u wrk jus to let u knw it n face it in need. Not to make u feel bad n irritated. Ab chalo aur jeeyo apni jindagi.'
Son felt embarrassed on listenin to his father.
Father again replied, 'Don be embarrassed by your failures. Learn frm dem n strt again. Miscommunications n misunderstandings happen! You learn much about hw u communicate thru ur mistakes and u learn a lot about d person u r talkin to. D ability to read d emotions n nonverbal communication of another person increases understandin n elevates relationships. Remember words r powerful! Wen u chose jus d rite word, u increase understandin ten-fold. D way we communicate wid others n wid ourselves ultimately determines d quality of our lives. I nevr stopd u frm going to ur frns. Cos I knw dey r d wealth one can accumulate more dan anythn one can achieve in life.'